Deep Questions To Ask A Girl

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Imagine this. You are in the honeymoon phase of your friendship (or relationship) with a girl. There is excitement. There are butterflies. And there is? Yes, you guessed it right! Curiosity. 

Now you wish to have a deep conversation with the girl but you don’t know where to start. Well, firing away deep questions is the way to go!

Deep questions make for serious and thorough conversations which lead to lengthy discussions. Questions like these generally aid in getting to know someone better or understanding their perspective on a subject. 

You need to ask follow-up questions to make such a conversation fruitful. These follow-up questions are subjective and can differ across different topics and people, which is why there is no single list for them. Thus, when you’re asking a girl a deep question, you ought to listen to what she says and base your follow-up questions off her answers to carry the conversation.

Deep questions aren’t for everyone, and certainly aren’t for the girl you’re meeting for the first time – of course unless you both have something in common. However, you can ask these deep questions to a girl who shares your interest in a deep conversation and also knows you well.

Asking a girl deep questions however doesn’t necessarily mean asking tough questions. It is human nature to lean towards easy math questions. The tough ones often have people lose their interest in them. Similarly, tough questions could ruin a good time for you.

Conversation is like a game. Treat it as such. Ask deep but easy questions and slowly level up as you begin to understand the person.

Scroll down to check out our list of deep questions to ask a girl.

List of Deep Questions to Ask A Girl

  1. What makes you feel the most empowered?
  2. What or who would you sacrifice your life for?
  3. Will humans spread out among the stars or just be a brief blip in the Earth’s history?
  4. What makes a person truly evil? Are they born that way or did their environment make them that way?
  5. Who is the most important person in your life?
  6. What is the darkest secret of your life?
  7. Tell about a person you are the most comfortable sharing all your thoughts with.
  8. What qualities do you notice in a person during your first encounter?
  9. What qualities will you expect in a person for a successful relationship with them?
  10. What is one activity you do the most in your leisure time?
  11. What qualities do you dislike in your parents?
  12. What is your opinion on live-in relationships?
  13. Do you prefer live-in or married life?
  14. What is the specific quality you like in yourself?
  15. What is that one irrevocable mistake you think you made in your life?
  16. Tell me about one of your good and bad habits.
  17. In this wicked world what issue concerns you the most?
  18. What do you think is the base of any relationship in the world?
  19. Is there any instance in your life where you almost ruined others’ lives?
  20. What are some of the blind restrictions imposed by your parents?
  21. Suppose your boyfriend has committed a crime. Would you leave or stay with him?
  22. According to you, what is the most underrated thing in the world that people invest their time in?
  23. What is your favorite genre of movies that you regularly watch?
  24. Describe a movie that has played the most significant role in your life and a character you liked the most.
  25. Out of all the qualities in them, which quality attracts you to the people the most?
  26. What is your ultimate goal in your life?
  27. If given a chance, which quality will you take from me which you think is missing in your life?
  28. According to you, what should be the primary quality in human beings?
  29. What are the unique qualities that describe you?
  30. What is the most devastating incident that happened in your life?
  31. Many parents believe that girls should be restricted in many ways, what are your thoughts on this idea?
  32. Tell me the top five things that are on your bucket list
  33. If the genie grants you three wishes, what would you choose?
  34. If you are given the chance to become a man, what is the first thing you would choose to do?
  35. If you were given a bag full of money and a bag full of knowledge, which one would you pick and why?
  36. What is your opinion on the existence of god?
  37. Who is your first crush and where did you first find them?
  38. Do you wish to be asked out on a date or will you ask the person you like the most out on a date?
  39. What is the most important life lesson you have learned from your previous experiences?
  40. What is the biggest fear in your life?
  41. Tell me about a moment in your life where you contemplated buying the farm. How did you overcome it?
  42. What is the most expensive thing you’ve ever bought? Are you satisfied with it?
  43. What is your favorite vacation spot out of the ones you’ve visited? What did you like the most?
  44. Do you have any weird habits or hobbies?
  45. What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done with your friends?
  46. What single event has had the biggest impact on who you are?
  47. Do you think human morality is learned or innate?
  48. What’s the most extreme example of poverty you have seen?
  49. Do you think that war is inevitable or can it be ended completely?
  50. Do you think the future will be better than the present? Why?
  51. What keeps you up at night?

What Are Some Good Deep Questions?

  1. What is the most important thing a person can do to improve themselves?
  2. Do you think the present is better than 50 years ago? Why?
  3. How much is human life worth and are some lives worth more than the others?
  4. What are the most common roadblocks that stop people from achieving their dreams?
  5. What’s the best piece of advice someone has given you?
  6. Why does society place such a high value on beauty when it serves no functional purpose?

What Are Some Deep Dark Questions?

  1. What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done in your life?
  2. What is the smallest thing you got angry about?
  3. What is the craziest thing you did as a kid?
  4. What’s the most crucial thing for a healthy relationship?
  5. What do a lot of parents do that screws up their kid?
  6. What lies do you most often tell yourself?

We hope you and whoever you ask these questions to enjoy the list.

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